A Different View that You Haven’t Heard:

Theresa Doughty, MSPT, Physical Therapist and Dr. Mike Doughty, Assistant Superintendent

Special education is a complex field that involves multiple perspectives and experiences. Understanding these different views can help us navigate the challenges and appreciate the efforts of everyone involved. From physical therapists to school administrators, each perspective offers valuable insights. As Pythagoras said, “Choices are the hinges of destiny.” Let's explore special education from these varied viewpoints.

The Rant Wheel: A Tool for Reflection

The "Rant Wheel" is a metaphorical tool we use to reflect on the various aspects of special education. It's hard not to come out fighting when discussing the challenges we face, but reflection is key to understanding and improvement.

Listening Fatigue is Real

Teachers, therapists, and parents often experience listening fatigue. Constantly processing information, attending meetings, and responding to needs can be exhausting. Acknowledging this fatigue is important for maintaining empathy and patience.

We Are Doing the Best We Can

In special education, everyone is doing their best with the resources and knowledge they have. It's crucial to remember that while we strive for improvement, perfection is unattainable. As Barb Candee from Capital Region BOCES advises, “Keep your eyes, ears, and heart open.”

Luck Matters 🍀

Luck plays a significant role in special education. The right resources, timely interventions, and supportive environments can make a huge difference. While we work hard, we must also recognize the element of luck in our successes and challenges.

Not Everyone is Equipped

Not everyone is naturally equipped to handle the demands of special education. Training, support, and understanding are essential to help educators, parents, and students thrive.

Presume Competence and Positive Intent

We must always presume competence and positive intent in our students and colleagues. This mindset fosters a respectful and encouraging environment where everyone can succeed.

Home and School are Different

There is often a disconnect between home and school environments. What works at school may not work at home and vice versa. Understanding and bridging these differences can enhance the support we provide to students.

Grieving Never Ends; It Just Changes

Parents and educators often experience a form of grieving as they navigate the challenges of special education. This grieving process evolves, but it never truly ends. Recognizing and supporting this emotional journey is vital.

Bureaucracies are Tough

Navigating the bureaucratic aspects of special education is challenging, even for those familiar with the system. Patience and perseverance are necessary to overcome these obstacles.

Shame and Embarrassment Get Less Bad

Over time, the shame and embarrassment associated with special education issues diminish. Acceptance and understanding grow, making it easier to address and manage challenges.

It’s Not About Being a Hero

In special education, it's not about being a hero; it's about doing your job with dedication and compassion. Every small effort contributes to the larger goal of supporting students.

We Don't "Get It"

Despite our best efforts, there are times when we simply don’t “get it.” Acknowledging this limitation and striving for continuous learning and improvement is crucial.

Takeaways

Special education is a field filled with challenges and rewards. By reflecting on these multiple perspectives, we can better understand and support each other. Whether you’re a physical therapist, an administrator, a teacher, or a parent, your efforts are valuable, and together, we can make a difference. As the Cheyenne proverb reminds us, “Do not judge your neighbor until you walk two moons in his moccasins.” Let’s continue to walk this journey together with empathy and understanding.